Is Dressing Sexy The Best First Impression For Him ?

Ladies, you definitely want to make a great first impression. As you know, men are visual creatures, and I have been told that they usually know within the first three seconds whether they are interested or not. Three seconds! Can you believe it ? So that means it’s your “look” that can make or break […]

Avoid Reading Too Much Into A Missed First Date

The human mind (ego) can play some pretty nasty tricks on us at times. Very often I will give a gentleman info on a new match with her phone number and he will call her, excited to meet a new lady and hoping that she will finally be “the one.” A day or two or […]

He Liked The First Date But Ghosted You

So you went out on a date with a really nice guy. Had a great time, so you thought. He even said that he would like to see you again when you inquired at the end of the date, but then, no call. He liked the first date but ghosted you. What happened?   Wouldn’t […]

Clear Out The Clutter To Attract Love

When our homes become cluttered other aspects of our lives tend to feel gridlocked too. Clutter is both a symptom and a cause of stuck energy. I know in my own life, when my desk is a mess, I can’t write as freely, and when my bedroom where I keep all of my books, magazines, […]

Affirmations Can Really Attract Love

I use affirmations on a daily basis in my own life, and the results are remarkable. Taking quiet time for yourself and developing a positive mindset is one of the most powerful life strategies there is. Most of us put ourselves down or compare ourselves negatively to others. Some people don’t realize that affirmations can […]

Good Communication Is The Best Way To A Successful Relationship

Communication is the way we convey our hopes, expectations, feelings, dreams and fears. Good communication is the best way to a successful relationship. Communication is expressed through our words, our facial expressions, our body language, our tone of voice and our mannerisms. Mind Reading; do you expect your date to know what you’re thinking? Successful […]

It’s Never Too Late To Start Dating

  Some people subscribe to the idea that dating is for young people. Let me assure you that could not be further from the truth. It is never too old to start dating. Love has no age limit! My own aunt met her finance at the age of 57. She had been married for 30 […]

The Harm In Having A Crush On A Coworker

  A large number of people do meet and date through work. After all, we spend at least eight hours a day with people we are paid to be with in a place that we often daydream about leaving. What is the harm in having a crush on a coworker ? I have heard that […]

Help Me Please Dating Has Become A Full Time Job

  If you are involved with a dating service or an Internet site, you just might have more dates than you can handle! Jay was on two different Internet sites and very serious about finding a partner, so he was going on about ten coffee dates per week. What was running through his mind was, […]

Reasons Men Focus On Physical Appearance Instead Of The Heart Or Mind

I’ve been a matchmaker in Los Angeles for 17 years, and there are no shortage of single men hoping to attract a “10!” Remember that film with Dudley Moore and Bo Derek? Yep, that’s what I mean.  Lets talk about some of the reasons men focus on physical appearance instead of the heart or mind. […]