How To End A Relationship The Wrong Way

If you do decide to end a relationship with someone, please understand there are ways to approach it, and ways to avoid it. Here’s how to end a relationship the wrong way. “Love never dies a natural death. It dies because we don’t know how to replenish its source. It dies of blindness and errors […]

Hoping Someone Will Change To Save A Relationship

One reason we may stay too long in a relationship is that we hope the person will change. Hoping someone will change to save a relationship is not a good plan. We tell ourselves, “I’ve found the perfect person for me. If only he, or she, could change this or that, we would be incredible […]

How To Make A Good Impression On A First Date

You’re out on a first date. Come to the date with expectant energy. If you are going to make the effort and take the time to look nice, doesn’t it make sense to also take the time to put yourself in the right frame of mind? Let’s talk about how to make a good impression […]

Truth About Who Should Pay On The First Date

If you are part of an upscale matchmaking service, especially the kind where the ladies don’t have to pay to join, you know it is customary for the man to pay for the date. But if you are internet-dating you should probably expect to pay half. Lets get into the truth about who should pay […]

How To Exit From A Bad First Date

I once received a call from a male client giving me feedback on his date the night before. First dates can be a challenge sometimes. Let’s talk about how to exit from a bad first date and want may be acceptable. Here’s his first hand story. Ronald had invited Stella to a lovely restaurant downtown […]

Giving the Ultimatum To A Man Who Doesn’t Commit

If marriage is your priority, then treat it as such. If the man that you are dating seems uninterested in making a commitment or has made comments against marriage. Lets talk about giving the ultimatum to a man who doesn’t commit.   The man I was dating before I met my husband did exactly that. […]

Singles Should Embrace Your Time Alone

Knowing and being happy that no one else is quite like you should be a fabulous feeling! When you are able to wholeheartedly acknowledge and celebrate your special talents, abilities, and accomplishments, you are well on your way to solid-self esteem – and being a good date! So singles should embrace your time alone. Of […]

If I Change My Personality That Will Make Me More Attractive

I remember being at a girlfriend’s house one day. Her name was Mary. She lived in a duplex on the ground floor. Her upstairs neighbor was a dishy single doctor, Dan, whom she had a crush on. But the doctor was dating a gal named Greta. Mary took note of how Greta dressed and behaved. […]

Do Men Prefer Women With Long Hair ?

When I hear the question, “Do men prefer women with long hair ?”, I can let you in on a little secret. Maybe you have heard that men just love long hair on women. It’s true, they do! They feel that it looks more feminine. For most of my thirties while living in Chicago I […]