Today more and more established men are using matchmakers, especially in big cities, like Los Angeles and Miami. The reasons can be obvious, including time and frustration with dating apps. But when it comes to using a matchmaking service, most matchmakers are women. Yes, men prefer a woman matchmaker.
For starters maybe it’s a dude thing, talking about what you truly want in a woman doesn’t seem like locker room talk with the guys.
We have found that male clients prefer working with female matchmakers because they are just that a woman. So, they offer personal insight into what women are looking for. The perspective is not one a man can know first-hand.
A woman matchmaker also can coach a man client on how to better connect to and understand a woman’s feelings. We just did an article on why guys don’t get second dates, so more perspective.
On the flip side women can also have difficulties getting into a serious long-term relationship. That may be another reason why many professional matchmakers shy away from taking women as paying clients. Another reason why we offer women to be candidates for our male clients at no charge. (sign up below)
Here is a link to a video with some thoughts on the subject from our head matchmaker and dating coach, Marla Martenson.
The other interesting part of this video is how she got into the matchmaking business. Yep, she started as a celebrity Beverly Hills matchmaker.
Back to why men choose women matchmakers. Another reason is they want success in finding a life partner. We hear almost every day from new clients about a not so good experience with other matchmaking services.
It’s simple, experience and the actual person doing matchmaking matter. There are many choices for matchmakers, but it does seem the larger they get, the lower the success rate. The most successful are boutique ones where the actual top matchmaker does the matchmaking. That is why we take on a limited number of clients. Guys, you can sign up using the link below.
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Yes, Men Prefer a Woman Matchmaker
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